Saturday, October 19, 2013

The Final Stages Of Healing From Abuse

The Final Stages Of Healing From Abuse

Romans 8:28-30 talks about God working ALL things for good.  Also we have a life long session of unlearning what is wrong and relearning what is right according to the Bible.  These parts take work. We have already released our hurts and forgiven our abusers at this point.  Now we must keep working at unlearning the bad and relearning the good.  Our characters are forming.  We also trust God to work that out for good, this is not just sitting there and letting things happen.  There are people out there.  We have become victorious,  now it is time to help others become victorious.  This takes continual work.  I am not saying that everyone should have an abuse page.  I am saying that there are people who come into your life that may need your help.  When you earnestly seek to help others, that heals you also.  When you have flashbacks,  you are reminded about those you have helped and the flashbacks become much easier to deal with.  We see how much we have been blessed because of what we went through rather than cursed. If you work at it,  you will get to this point.  If you just sit there and do nothing,  you will remain a victim. 

Let's work to be survivors rather than victims.

God bless you all

Rodney Calmes

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