Support For Those Who Have Been Abused Or Bullied

There Are Things That Are A Part Of Us That May Not Have Been If We Were Never Abused.  Accepting Ourselves And Coping With These Are Very ...

Those Who Abuse People Sin Against God And That Person There were many things done to children.   I was spanked with hardwood sticks on my ...

The Dangers Of Spanking This condition is very common among BDSM, but it is not limited to the BDSM realm.  This also happens when chil...

Those Who Do Not Repent Will Be Condemned Many of us have been abused by someone in our family.   Abusers do not want to admit to abusing u...

How You Were Treated Has No Reflection Of Who You Are.  You may have been beaten and the abuser blames you.   You may have been called name...

You Don't Have To Be "Normal" Have you ever tried to be normal?   Do you have differences that doesn't seem normal?   Do ...

You Are Not "Damaged Goods" Many times our society looks at us as survivors of abuse,  bullying, rape or molestation as "dam...

Love Is The Greatest Thing Of All Many of us have been treated poorly, we were told that we were stupid,  we were told that we were worthl...

How To Hide Your Internet Accounts With Using Your Legal Name In a lot of cases when you have stalkers, you will have to close down all you...

You Are Not Your Mistakes Mistakes are something all of us have made.  Some of the mistakes we have made are sins, some of them are not.  W...

Scars From Abuse Appear To Be Very Ugly,  But In The End They Become A Beautiful Thing Many of us carry physical scars and emotional scars...

Look How Far You Have Come Many of you have been told that you are worthless and that you will never amount to anything,  or you may have b...

What To Do When We Encounter Triggers And Flaskbacks Whenever we go through a traumatic event in our lives,  memory triggers and flashback...

It Is Ok To Be Loved And Be Treated With Kindness We may know intellectually that it is ok to be loved and treated with kindness.  Sometim...

You Are Not Your Mistakes Mistakes are something all of us have made.  Some of the mistakes we have made are sins, some of them are not.  ...

What Happens When A Person Is Spanked Too Harshly Too Often I am now 42 years old.  This is a sample of what can happen when a person i...

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When Repeatedly Exposed To Pain , We Build Resistance To Pain And Further Damage Both Physically And Mentally In my past posts,  I have...

Our Past May Hit Us Several Times A Day,  Keep Looking Toward The Blessing We Have The deep wounds that were left on us take much time to ...

"Bad Cops" "Bad cops" are referred to parents,  teachers, other forms of caretakers, bosses, or other forms of authori...

An Art That Is Not Recognized Many people think that BDSM is always a sexual thing when 90 percent of the time it is not sexual.   It takes...

Having Desires And Fascinations With Getting Spanked Is Nothing To Be Ashamed Of You may have seen some people out in public making fun of...

Trusting that God will work out all things for good.  Romans 8:28 When we have worked out all the emotional pain,  came out of denial and g...

Self Pity Leads To Destruction Coming out of denial and accepting and acknowledging what happened to us is our first steps toward healing....

"My Dad Used To Do This To Me" "My dad used to do this to me" is not an excuse for abuse.  It does not justify abuse. ...

The Final Stages Of Healing From Abuse Romans 8:28-30 talks about God working ALL things for good.  Also we have a life long session of un...

It Is Hard To Trust The Type Of People Who Abused You. Some of you may have experienced this and I will share my experiences with this als...

Something I Have Never Revealed This happens a lot to women,  but is not very common to happen to men.  I was ashamed to talk about this a...

Does God Take Away Every Side Effect Of Abuse? God will work out the things that are considered sinful,  He will heal emotional pain, He w...

How God Has Worked Out The Abuse And Bullying Out For Good In My Life Along With Its Complications The abusive spankings I took from my gr...