Support For Those Who Have Been Abused Or Bullied

My Story, and Things I have learned throughout my life. By Rodney Calmes

Monday, August 29, 2016

TRAUMA

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TRAUMA: Trauma was mentioned in the Bible before scientists discovered the effects of trauma to the human brain. Ecclesiastes 7:7 - ...

From The Comfort God Gives You Through Your Adversities, You Will Comfort Others

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From The Comfort God Gives You Through Your Adversities, You Will Comfort Others We all face adversities.  Many of us who are reading this...
Sunday, May 1, 2016

Reasons That We Self Harm And Various Forms Of It

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Reasons That We Self Harm And Various Forms Of It Self harm often serves as a coping mechanism for abuse.  Why do we harm ourselves when o...
Sunday, April 24, 2016

Why Old School Model Doesn't Work And Is Unbiblical In Regards To Bringing Up Children

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Why Old School Model Doesn't Work And Is Unbiblical In Regards To Bringing Up Children In my past posts, I have covered a lot about sp...
Friday, April 22, 2016

What If The Church Doesn't Support You Leaving An Abusive Situation?

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What If The Church Doesn't Support You Leaving An Abusive Situation? Too many people who are being abused don't leave because the ...
Thursday, April 21, 2016

The Sexual Effects Of Spanking Children And How It Can Alter Sexual Development From Before Adolescence On

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The Sexual Effects Of Spanking Children And How It Can Alter Sexual Development From Before Adolescence On Many people will not accept or ...

The Second Abuse Can Be Worse Than The Original Abuse

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The Second Abuse Can Be Worse Than The Original Abuse What is the second abuse? 1. The second abuse is when someone doesn't believe ...

No More Silence

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No More Silence Abusers may appear to be very nice people on the outside. They may have friends, some may achieve leadership positions in ...

Correction Vs. Punishment (Bringing Up Children Biblically Based On The Original Language And Full Context Of Scripture) part 2

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Correction Vs. Punishment (Bringing Up Children Biblically Based On The Original Language And Full Context Of Scripture) part 2 On my last...

Bringing Up Children Biblically Based On The Original Language And Full Context Of Scripture

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Bringing Up Children Biblically Based On The Original Language And Full Context Of Scripture To Teach, Admonish, Train, Instruct, Rebuke, ...
Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Share Your Testimony, Tell People What Jesus Has Done For You

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Share Your Testimony, Tell People What Jesus Has Done For You Many of us have heard especially from our families "It is in the past, ...
Monday, February 10, 2014

Never Let Anyone Shut You Up

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Never Let Anyone Shut You Up Many times we face family,  organizations,  friends,  relatives and other people who try to keep us silent.  W...
Tuesday, January 7, 2014

There Are Things That Are A Part Of Us That May Not Have Been If We Were Never Abused. Accepting Ourselves And Coping With These Are Very Important

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There Are Things That Are A Part Of Us That May Not Have Been If We Were Never Abused.  Accepting Ourselves And Coping With These Are Very ...
Sunday, January 5, 2014

Those Who Abuse People Sin Against God And That Person

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Those Who Abuse People Sin Against God And That Person There were many things done to children.   I was spanked with hardwood sticks on my ...

The Dangers Of Over Spanking

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The Dangers Of Spanking This condition is very common among BDSM, but it is not limited to the BDSM realm.  This also happens when chil...

Those Who Do Not Repent Will Be Condemned

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Those Who Do Not Repent Will Be Condemned Many of us have been abused by someone in our family.   Abusers do not want to admit to abusing u...
Saturday, December 14, 2013

How You Were Treated Has No Reflection Of Who You Are.

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How You Were Treated Has No Reflection Of Who You Are.  You may have been beaten and the abuser blames you.   You may have been called name...

You Don't Have To Be "Normal"

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You Don't Have To Be "Normal" Have you ever tried to be normal?   Do you have differences that doesn't seem normal?   Do ...
Sunday, December 8, 2013

You Are Not "Damaged Goods"

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You Are Not "Damaged Goods" Many times our society looks at us as survivors of abuse,  bullying, rape or molestation as "dam...

Love Is The Greatest Thing Of All

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Love Is The Greatest Thing Of All Many of us have been treated poorly, we were told that we were stupid,  we were told that we were worthl...

How To Hide Your Internet Accounts With Using Your Legal Name

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How To Hide Your Internet Accounts With Using Your Legal Name In a lot of cases when you have stalkers, you will have to close down all you...

You Are Not Your Mistakes

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You Are Not Your Mistakes Mistakes are something all of us have made.  Some of the mistakes we have made are sins, some of them are not.  W...
Sunday, December 1, 2013

Scars From Abuse Appear To Be Very Ugly, But In The End They Become A Beautiful Thing

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Scars From Abuse Appear To Be Very Ugly,  But In The End They Become A Beautiful Thing Many of us carry physical scars and emotional scars...

Look How Far You Have Come

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Look How Far You Have Come Many of you have been told that you are worthless and that you will never amount to anything,  or you may have b...

What To Do When We Encounter Triggers And Flashbacks

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What To Do When We Encounter Triggers And Flaskbacks Whenever we go through a traumatic event in our lives,  memory triggers and flashback...

It Is Ok To Be Loved And Be Treated With Kindness

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It Is Ok To Be Loved And Be Treated With Kindness We may know intellectually that it is ok to be loved and treated with kindness.  Sometim...
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Support For Those Who Have Been Abused Or Bullied
This is a Christian support blog for those who have been abused or bullied. You can visit my facebook page, or leave comments on my blog, and I will pray for you and do what I can to encourage you or help you. You can also encourage and help others as well.
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