Support For Those Who Have Been Abused Or Bullied

What Happens When A Person Is Spanked Too Harshly Too Often I am now 42 years old.  This is a sample of what can happen when a person i...

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When Repeatedly Exposed To Pain , We Build Resistance To Pain And Further Damage Both Physically And Mentally In my past posts,  I have...

Our Past May Hit Us Several Times A Day,  Keep Looking Toward The Blessing We Have The deep wounds that were left on us take much time to ...

"Bad Cops" "Bad cops" are referred to parents,  teachers, other forms of caretakers, bosses, or other forms of authori...

An Art That Is Not Recognized Many people think that BDSM is always a sexual thing when 90 percent of the time it is not sexual.   It takes...

Having Desires And Fascinations With Getting Spanked Is Nothing To Be Ashamed Of You may have seen some people out in public making fun of...

Trusting that God will work out all things for good.  Romans 8:28 When we have worked out all the emotional pain,  came out of denial and g...

Self Pity Leads To Destruction Coming out of denial and accepting and acknowledging what happened to us is our first steps toward healing....

"My Dad Used To Do This To Me" "My dad used to do this to me" is not an excuse for abuse.  It does not justify abuse. ...

The Final Stages Of Healing From Abuse Romans 8:28-30 talks about God working ALL things for good.  Also we have a life long session of un...

It Is Hard To Trust The Type Of People Who Abused You. Some of you may have experienced this and I will share my experiences with this als...

Something I Have Never Revealed This happens a lot to women,  but is not very common to happen to men.  I was ashamed to talk about this a...

Does God Take Away Every Side Effect Of Abuse? God will work out the things that are considered sinful,  He will heal emotional pain, He w...

How God Has Worked Out The Abuse And Bullying Out For Good In My Life Along With Its Complications The abusive spankings I took from my gr...

My Story Of How I Have Learned To Accept Myself In May 2012, I started my page Support For Those Who Have Been Abused. I have already foun...

The Importance Of Accepting Yourself As Essential For Healing From Abuse Or Bullying Issues I have talked about in previous posts about the...

Abusive Spankings Are Resented Along With Its Side Effects. I have taken many spankings and whippings in my life. Many of them were abusi...

My Background Which Lead To My Fascination And Desires Of Getting Spanked Many of my childhood spankings bring back bad memories. I have b...

Listening And Praying Is More Important Than Being A Solution To Their Problems Many times people come to us with very difficult and hurtfu...

Non-Sexual Masochism/Non-Sexual BDSM Many people have heard of sexual masochism or sexual BDSM.  BDSM is not always about sex.  BDSM invol...

False Teachings In The Church That Has Lead To Much Evil 1. Beating wives into submission. Read Ephesians 5:22-33 very closely. This talks ...

Self Harm And BDSM Has Their Differences Sometimes the same physical things happen during self harm and masochism. There is a distinct diff...

You are all unique. Embrace in your uniqueness and embrace in your differences. Your uniqueness and differences is how God created you. Want...

Families Will Deny Our Abuse Leaving Us Alienated And Alone When we have been abused by our families, they will deny the abuse or tone it d...

Talking To Yourself Can Help You Think More Clearly Many people do not understand when others talk to themselves. It is something I do reg...

An Example Of Hebrews 9:22 "No Remission Of Sin Without The Shedding Of Blood" Being Practiced Incorrectly. There was a man who h...

BDSM Comes With No Shame The unique thing I like about BDSM is that I can practice it with no shame. I am a Christian and because the Bibl...

Trying To Stop The Physical Act Of Harming Ourselves Is Not The Solution. We find ourselves cutting, hitting, burning, or doing other harm...

The Difference Of A Person Who Has A Photographic Memory I have a photographic memory. In a lot of ways it has been a great advantage. I r...