Support For Those Who Have Been Abused Or Bullied

My Story, and Things I have learned throughout my life. By Rodney Calmes

Monday, July 29, 2013

Things To Know If You Are Being Bullied At Work

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Things To Know If You Are Being Bullied At Work Whenever you go to work, give it your best. Do the best that you know how and know that God...
Saturday, July 20, 2013

Don't Get Sucked Into Bullying At Work

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Don't Get Sucked Into Bullying At Work More times than not bosses bully employees. Many times they will pick out the weakest link and ...
Sunday, July 14, 2013

Tips For Finding A Good Loving Spouse

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Tips For Finding A Good Loving Spouse There is nothing that is fool proof. There are no 100% guarantees, but these tips can help. 1. Trus...
Friday, July 12, 2013

PTSD, Triggers And Flashbacks

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PTSD, Triggers And Flashbacks Have you ever had something that was said or done that you witnessed that caused you to start shaking uncont...
Tuesday, July 9, 2013

There Is No Remission For Sin Without The Shedding Of Blood Heb 9:22

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There Is No Remission For Sin Without The Shedding Of Blood Heb. 9:22 There is no remission for sin without the shedding of blood. Tha...

Whips Cannot Hurt You! Sticks Cannot Hurt You!

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Whips Cannot Hurt You! Sticks Cannot Hurt You! I have a whip at home. Is is a very stiff whip with a slightly flexible end on it. What does...
Saturday, July 6, 2013

Repentance Can Go A Long Way, Reverse Repentance Can Do More Damage Than If There Were No Repentance

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Repentance Can Go A Long Way, Reverse Repentance Can Do More Damage Than If There Were No Repentance After I have lived with my grandparent...

Spankings With Blunt Force Or Over Spanking Can Create Many Complications Even If It Happens Only Once

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Spankings With Blunt Force Or Over Spanking Can Create Many Complications Even If It Happens Only Once I have been spanked many times with ...

"I Love You" Can Be Meaningless When Love Is Not Practiced

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"I Love You" Can Be Meaningless When Love Is Not Practiced Many parents tell their children "I love you". Kids need to ...
Friday, July 5, 2013

Bare Butt Spankings Are Crude And Indecent

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Bare Butt Spankings Are Crude And Indecent Many of us have been spanked as children. Blunt force or spankings with blunt objects causes...

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Spankings With Blunt Force Or Over Spanking Can Create Many Complications Even If It Happens Only Once I have been spanked many times with...
Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Spankings Can Be A Reward Rather Than A Punishment With Some Kids

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Spankings Can Be A Reward Rather Than A Punishment With Some Kids Many parents will try to curb misbehavior by spanking with blunt force o...
Saturday, June 29, 2013

Accepting The Things That Happened To Us Is Wrong May Be More Difficult But It Is The Best For Us In The Long Run

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It may be easier to convince ourselves that we either deserved the abuse or that some how the abuse we got was right for ourselves. This ty...

Those Who Tear You Down Are Doing The Work Of The Devil

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Anyone who makes you feel any less than a precious and special person has told you lies. Anyone who has not loved you has sinned. Anyone wh...

You Are A Much Better Person Than Those Who Mistreated You

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For those who have bullied you, abused you or mistreated you because they cannot accept you for who you are has already proven who they are...

Convincing Yourself That You Deserved The Abuse Is Destructive

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I have tried to convince myself that I deserved to be abused. I tried to figure out a way that I deserved it and no one else does. I never ...

Forgiveness Is Not Justifying A Wrong And It Is Not Denying A Wrong

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When we try to justify the abuse we got, that is not forgiveness. Justifying the abuse we got leads us to abuse others. It will not heal us...

Every Person Is Responsible To Research And Do What Is Right. There Is No Excuse For Abuse.

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Each person is responsible before God to research the Bible for what is right and what is wrong. No one can be justified for abuse. I may h...

This Is What Can Happen If A Child Is Abused Even If It Is Only Once

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I recently whipped my butt with a car antenna until it was very well swollen and bruised. I had a flashback of when I was 7 when I had to p...

Too Many Harsh Spankings Done On A Regular Basis Can Become Ineffective And Painless

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Many parents tried to teach their children by giving them severe spankings. I have been spanked with a 1x2 stick. Sticks and large paddles ...

A Legal Declaration I Have to Make to Prevent Any Further Lawsuits

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A Legal Declaration I Have to Make to Prevent Any Further Lawsuits I legally have to declare very clearly that in the picture that someone ...

A Very Common Form Of Abuse That People Don't Think Of As Abuse

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A Very Common Form Of Abuse That People Don't Think Of As Abuse: This type of abuse usually occurs in divorce situations. Children bec...

Did I Choose This?

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Did I Choose This? When I was growing up, I was spanked with a stick until I could no longer feel that stick hitting my butt. Those became...
Friday, May 24, 2013

Those With Good Character Cannot Be Torn Down

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Those With Good Character Cannot Be Torn Down     When you live a life in obedience to God’s word, and make it your goal to love ...
Thursday, May 23, 2013

My Story on Cyber Bullying by Rodney Calmes

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My Story on Cyber Bullying by Rodney Calmes About 2 years ago, someone took a picture of my scarred bottom, then exaggerated the scars w...
Thursday, May 9, 2013

Support For Those Who Have Been Abused Or Bullied: The Aftermath of Giving it all to God

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Support For Those Who Have Been Abused Or Bullied: The Aftermath of Giving it all to God
Saturday, April 27, 2013

The Aftermath of Giving it all to God

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The Aftermath of Giving it all to God          The first step we need to make in this process is to accept Jesus Christ as Lord and ...

Work Place Abuse/Bullying

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Work Place Abuse/Bullying       There may be bosses or managers who hit or sexually harass employees, but the most common form of ab...

My Roots in Sadomasochism BDSM

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My Roots in Sadomasochism BDSM        This may be complicated. I was often spanked as a child, and when I lived with my grandparents ...

The Blessings and Struggles of Having a Photographic Memory

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The Blessings and Struggles of Having a Photographic Memory Having a photographic memory can be a blessing. You do not have to stu...
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Support For Those Who Have Been Abused Or Bullied
This is a Christian support blog for those who have been abused or bullied. You can visit my facebook page, or leave comments on my blog, and I will pray for you and do what I can to encourage you or help you. You can also encourage and help others as well.
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